Author: alexa
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My aunt died and that really sucked. (a piece on grief)
It’s been 8 months and I’m really not sure how much of this I’ve processed vs. what I’ve buried away. 7 months before my Aunt’s last days earth-side, she was diagnosed with Leukemia. Just that word brings up a lot of unprocessed emotions because, well… fuck cancer. I miss her. I miss the version of…
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You’re Not Sad. You Just Need to Create.
I watched a TikTok yesterday that absolutely gagged me. This creator spoke to my soul when she straight up told me that not having a creative outlet makes me INSANE. When @witti.indi so elegantly said… “Creative people without a creative outlet are insufferable.”“You’re not sad, you just need to create.”“Unused creative energy attaches itself to…
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The Key to Manifesting: Financial Abundance
Something you’ll hear me say a lot is that in order to manifest something, you have to make room for it. Manifestation isn’t just about hoping for the best. It involves aligning your mindset, actions, and words with the reality you’re working to create. What does “making room” mean? It’s about stepping into the version…
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the human experience of relationships
We spend a huge chunk of our adulthood trying to navigate who is meant to be in our lives. Consciously or not, we spend so much time contemplating if the people we have are the right fit for us, what determines if they are or aren’t, and how to decided what to do about it.…
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I’m tired of healing
“I’m tired of healing” is a statement I’m all too familiar with. We know that healing isn’t instantaneous, it’s not ‘one and done’. But, when you’re in the depths of deep healing, you often crave the outcome, you crave no longer getting triggered, you crave the destination. I think that’s the biggest thing I’ve learned…
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navigating sexual trauma
TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ASSUALT/RAPE A part of me wanted to apologize for the title, as there is no soft way to put it. But, I’m not here to beat around the bush, we are here to heal and be. You know, I don’t really talk about this so publicly. I have, once before, and looking…
With Love & Lex 